The author reflects on their first encounter with Neo4j in 2011, learning about its simplicity and query language Cypher, which allows for easy data querying. They highlight the benefits of using a graph database like Neo4j, particularly when dealing with highly interconnected data, and share their personal experience of getting started with the technology through various tutorials and resources. The author concludes that Neo4j is a great tool for creating innovative solutions in modern applications such as virtual assistants, recommendation engines, and social networks, and encourages readers to try it out, even offering a 40% discount on a Udemy course.